Lack of trust. (Funny story of a stranger)
My mum doesn’t trust me and my boyfriend. I understand she’s protective like all mothers can be, however she pushed a boundary merely a few days ago.
I’m 18 and my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for one year and we haven’t had sex- but we have done oral stimulation time to time. My mum doesn’t trust either of us, I don’t mean “no you can’t share the same bed while he sleeps over” kind of trust, I mean something way more dramatic.
I was due for my period a little while ago, my mum has her period after I’ve had mine. When she got hers she asked why I didn’t tell her and I told her I didn’t have mine yet.
My mother got really angry, she went to the store and called my boyfriend and he came over; we were both confused.
Next thing I know, my mum throws a pregnancy test in my face and demands I take it. I declined but then she assumed I was pregnant, I merely took the tests inside (there were two) and alas- they both came out negative.
Although she did calm down, she didn’t believe me when I showed her and tried to make me have a doctors appointment the next day.
However the next day I got my period and even though I did so kindly, I asked for an apology. My mum didn’t apologise, acting like a victim and I didn’t bother arguing as I never win.
Did she take it too far?
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.