My son don’t wanna be with his dad

Hey guys. So my husband starting to hate the fact that my son don’t wanna hang with him. Our son is 18 months old and since he was born, my husband was nervous to hold him at first. I was like okay. He a new dad and men have a diff way of handling becoming a father. But when he held him that day, he didn’t wanna let him go. We got home, he was so protective that it was annoying and I would get upset because he would tell me “don’t drop my baby” or “don’t hurt him or let him slip in the bath” but he would never do his baths cuz he claimed he was too scared to. So as he got older, and started crawling. He held him more and played with him. Then he woke just play with him. This when it started to bother me more tho, when I had to work on the weekends, he would be like “your parent can’t watch him” and I’m like “you off and not doing anything. You his father. Spend time with him” and I would leave. I would get a call later in the day and find out that he dropped our son off at my parents house! I would call him and he would tell me “idk how to handle him like you. He cry and wouldn’t stop.” And I told him “you need to learn how to be around you child and tend to him. You act like you can’t don’t wanna be bothered with your child”.

Im so upset with him because I have tried tactics like leaving him with him but he would put his child off with someone else like my parents or someone in my family because my family the closet and live on our street or the area. Now he older, 18 months and my son loves me to death. Loves to be under me. I do everything. But lately my husband been wanting to take him a Bath and my son did not want his daddy to bathe. Then my husband tried to take him to the park. My son cried and ran back to me so I went with him. He took my hand and pulled me to the playground and told his daddy “bye daddy!”

So later, his father said to me “I’m trying to get my son more but he wanna be under me. I didn’t want him that much as a baby cuz he needed his mom more but now he learning behaviors from you and I don’t want him learning to be a girl. He need to be under his father now. To learn to be a boy”. I was shocked in belief. Like wow.. now I get it. He afraid his son will be gay. My husband has no problem with gay ppl but I think it may put in perspective of him having a son that is tho. I dontknow what to say.

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