So I talked to my mom and told her i had had sex.

She then said “now i have to take a step i didnt want to with you”

My sister just got off of her Pills because it was screwing her up. And her boyfriend doesnt touch her.

My mom then Said all that about My Sis to me and Said “so how are you going to tell your father.”

I had enough Anxiety tell her! And I Dont want to get hit by my dad or Him Go an Kick the crap let alone sit on my boyfriend!

Im old enough and Doctors Recommend having a Teen age girl start Birth control at 16 not Because She should Or Would Have sex but because her body should be used to it, and i explained this to my mom before even dating my best friend In the world.

I know it was stupid, and ik im just a Kid and im immature and Irresponsible. So Dont hate please.

Just someone help me find out how to tell my dad without him Getting Abusive?

I’ve gotten Hit all my life when i stepped out of line. But for once I feel like im me again. And I miss having my dad. I dont want to ruin what relationship i have left with him.

So how do i tell him. Or convince myself to tell him.

UPDATE: everything is good i told my dad he Sat down and said It was fine, he wasn’t Disappointed. And he didnt hurt me. He is shocked i did it tho. He is just glad Im 15 and not 12 like he and my mom were.