HELPš
Hey yāall, just looking for a little advice/words of wisdom/pep talk!
My husband and I have made a a whole 2 1/2 months of marriage. We got married in April. We fight NON-STOP. Constantly yelling and cussing at each other. Most of the time he starts it by saying some stupid comments because heās so petty and immature. Like a couple of nights ago I was sitting in the living room at midnight and he came in and yelled at me because I was āgoing to sleep all dayā when in reality I was up at 6am the next day to let the dog out. He didnāt wake up until 2 PM!!!! He makes me feel as if he doesnāt love me AT ALL. I tell him all the time that I feel he just married me because he felt like he had to since my parents had so much invested in the wedding. I cried whenever I saw our wedding pictures because he wasnāt smiling in any of them... I keep on and keep on gaining weight because I stress eat and (depressed eat) and I am absolutely miserable. He makes sly comments about how big Iām getting and it really hurts. I cry almost daily now (sometimes multiple times daily) and he just ignores it. Whenever I call him out and tell him how rude and hurtful he is, he just ignores me or he gets mad and it makes everything even worse. We were trying to have a little weekend trip to enjoy ourselves, but instead he spit in my face and cussed me like a dog and ruined our trip. Iām at a loss. I donāt know what to do. Itās not far from an abusive relationship, I feel.... š
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