I just moved in with my boyfriend after a few years & we’re now expecting our first😇❤️. Some background information, im 20 and Portuguese he’s 22 and Puerto Rican. I need some pointers ladies, idk when this happen but i haven’t been taking care of myself much. My hygiene isn’t the problem, it’s just doing my hair and makeup or getting dressed up. Which i used to love doing. All through highschool that’s all i ever spent money on was clothes and makeup. I use to wake up 2 hours before i had to leave to make sure i showered EVERY morning had time to blow dry, lotion up and do my makeup. But now it’s like i get out the shower and put on shorts with a big shirt and no bra. I don’t do makeup anymore and i don’t even bother getting dressed. My boyfriend sometimes says stuff like “get dressed” but It’s like i have no motivation and sharing a room with a guy lol... is hard keeping it clean. And i barely have motivation to do that anymore. I’m having a baby and i want to look good and take pictures and feel good about myself and keep our place clean but just don’t know how to get that motivation back? And cooking.. forget about it. The whole time I’ve lived here I’ve probably cooked a whole 2 times. He’ll make little comments too which kinda upset me, but honestly I’ve never learned how to cook. My grandma did ALL the cooking and that women knew how to cook (Portuguese lady) she end us home with pots and pots of food that we couldn’t even finish and kept everything cleaned even ironed my dads underwear 😂 THATS GOALS. I’m a CNA and honestly after work those are all the last things in my mind even a shower half of the time is the last thin i wanna do. So i just want some pointers and maybe even some tips on what i could cook for dinner, maybe even some recipes? 😬🤫 forever going to the supermarket getting random frozen dinners 😒 HELP YA GIRLLL!!!