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My partner went out at the weekend and kissed other girl in a bar, he said she kissed him and he did kiss her back but then realised! Should I leave him!? Feel like my whole world has come crashing down!

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He stopped the kiss and told you about it instead of hiding it. I'd say it seems like he's trying to be honest with you. Did he apologise? Personally I'd give him another chance but make it clear that if it happens again then you are walking away.

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Why was he even in a position that another girl got close enough and was able to go in for a kiss? That’s what bothers me the most. I mean my husband goes out with his friends or coworkers without me and I don’t care. But he just wouldn’t get himself in that situation

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Up to you entirely. Do you believe him? Did you tell you right after it happened?

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I personally couldn't handle that.. I'd never trust him when he was out drinking without me and I'd probably resent him. But that's just me. However, like the others said, he was honest and he didn't have to tell you.

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I personally have a really hard time trusting, and a relationship needs to have trust. I would never be able to trust him going out again and I’d have major anxiety all the time wondering “what if he’s doing... x y or z” but it all comes down to you and your gut feeling. Could you trust him again?

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If a kiss makes you feel this way, yes you should leave him. Probably not the first time he has done it or will do it.

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It’s up to you. He fessed up and we don’t know your partner.

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Hate to say it but if it happened once it very well could happen again.

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Thanks for the comments girls, I didn’t think I’d get so many! The thing is he has been giving me nothing but verbal abuse from Friday- accusing me of cheating on him! When hand on my heart I never have! So Saturday came- more verbal abuse, didn’t hear from him all Saturday night from 6pm, didn’t hear from him on Sunday and it was finally on Monday he told me? I can’t get my head around his tongue being shoved in someone else’s mouth! I literally feel sick to my stomach! He swore on his children’s life’s that it was just a kiss and that he was angry at me? Angry at me for what? I don’t understand and I honestly don’t know what to do, deep down I love him and even before I met him he had a reputation, everyone warned me off him! I guess I just answered my own question.. and should probably leave! It’s soul destroying! 😔

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why weren't you out with him? keep in mind he didn't have to tell you, he was at a bar alachol was involved..nobody can tell you what to do listen to your heart

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