My husband what??? UPDATE

So I’ve known my husband my whole life! We have been dating since we were 13 years old. We broke up once only for a few days when we were 16. We got married at 18 (just last September) and we have a daughter and twins on the way.

So I get a message from a girl on Facebook saying she needs to talk to me and my husband but she would rather do it face to face. After awhile of talking with her I agree because she seems really urgent. We had planned to meet with her the next day. I ask my husband if he knows this girl and he says no and I continue to tell him everything that she was saying and tell him we are meeting with her. He questions me about it but eventually drops it because he knows I will go with or without him. I don’t sleep the entire night because I’m worried about what this girl wants.

The next day rolls around and it’s time to meet her. We go to a little coffee shop and find her there with a little girl (about 2 or 3 years old) and we sit down with her and she tells us her name and her daughters name. She then tells us that the little girl is MY HUSBAND’S daughter. She said she was willing to do the dna test because she knows that she is his. She said they only slept together once and what do you know, it was when we had been broken up for just a few days.

Sorry this was just a little rant because I didn’t know who else to tell and I’m just lost with myself right now

***i’m not mad that he slept with someone else while we were broken up, I’m mad because he told me he didn’t do anything with anyone else in that time. After this talk he has told me that he did sleep with someone and it might be her. I’m not mad at the fact that there was someone else, I have no right to be because we weren’t together but he lied to me about it.

Update***** we got the dna test back and he is the father. I have thought about the possibilities that he was the father while we were waiting for the results and I’ve decided to stay with him. We spent some time with his daughter today and she is the sweetest little girl. I don’t know what is going to happen now but we’re working through things together