All opinions wanted!! Positive AND negative! If I wanted my boyfriend to stop drinking or drink significantly less, should he do it??

I HATE when my bf drinks!

A little background. He’s 34 and I’m 33. We been together 6 years, living together for 4.5 years. He has his own business and works very hard. I just graduated from college with a Bachelors. I help him at work sometimes when he needs it. We are very close and spend a lot of time together. We go half on bills but some months he pays all the rent($1300). He buys 80% of our dine out food but I buy 80% of the groceries. We have no kids together or in the home(just a cat). We are very happy in our relationship except for this one thing.

I barely drink but I am NOT against alcohol at all. I drink if I go out which is not much. My boyfriend however is a “Tuesday”drinker, Meaning he gets drunk when he wants to no matter the days. I don’t mind him being drunk, it’s how he acts and looks when he’s drunk. He looks gross. And he hounds me for sex, sexual pleasure and attention for hours. I hate it. I don’t like having sex with him when he is drunk. It’s a turn off and has been for years but he doesn’t care. I get very very angry and I used to leave and spend the night out at my moms but I’m tired of leaving my home now. He is not an angry drinker or abusive. His habit just annoys me to the core to where I want to cry when I know he is drunk. He gets EXTREMELY sexual and wants to play with my body for hours. I have officially kind of stopped having sexual with him when he gets drunk now and it really upsets him. He gets drunk anywhere from 0-3 times a month. Sometimes he goes months without getting drunk though. Again, the problem is not him getting drunk but what alcohol actually does to him. I do not want to be the nagging girlfriend who wants to “spoil” his fun but I am at my wits end and it’s really fucking up our relationship in a kind of deep way. When he drinks, he wants to enact in freaky things which I’m okay with but only when he’s sober! I don’t know what to do because sometimes I feel like I am being boring to him but he has never told me that though. Our sex life is great and we have sex all the time when he is not drunk so it’s not like he’s being neglected. BUT when we do have sex when he is sober, he comes way quicker and is not able to last that long. So when he drinks, he gets to fool around with me and enjoy the sex much longer. Am I making sense? Lol. What do I do? I have thought about leaving him but I love him to death and he is great man overall. Plus, we also have a business together. Any advice would be appreciated! And yes I have talked to him about but he doesn’t see anything wrong because he works hard, is loyal to me and doesn’t get drunk everyday. Opinions please. Should he stop because it’s bothering me so much? Or am I doing too much? Thanks!

*oh yeah and it happened last night and now we are not even talking