I need advice. I’m 7 months into my marriage and it feels like it’s failing to me. My husband has dropped the ball on really huge things in our lives and it’s causing a lot of arguments and friction. We already had a rough beginning to our marriage because my family did not support it. We are expecting our second child together in a two year relationship. We’ve known each other for 10 years. I’m very unhappy and I’ve communicated it. It’s been weeks since we had sex and I can’t get myself to the level of attraction to want to kiss him either. I just feel like we have too many conflicts. I’ve looked at myself a lot in this to see what I could be doing wrong. I don’t think he’s a bad guy but I do think we are not compatible. I’m not seeking judgment I’m seeking helpful advice from people who’ve been there.

Thank you.