Am I overreacting

My mother and I were discussing new hairstyles for myself and mentioned a fringe similar to Camila cabello.. I have had a fringe before though when I was a pre teen. I am an adult now, and have a boyfriend of 3 years and messaged him sayinf I was thinking of getting a fringe again- I didn’t even get the chance to show him my ideas l, discuss or anything before he said I’d look better without it and I do... I felt so hurt and insulted that he said that and didn’t even listen or give me the chance to talk.... needless to say i got emotional because he didn’t even give me a chance to talk about it notning.... and didn’t even make the effort and soon after twisted making it about him saying he’s insulted I’m overreacting etc I need to calm down blah blah and soon after says he did notning wrong he instead said I’m beautiful wirj or without it and that wasn’t my point I kept telling him I’m hurt BECAUSE he didn’t even give me a chance to explain... I stopped messaging him because I was so emotional and angry that he wasn’t even acknowledging what he said or didn’t do...

And even messaged my brother to see if I was actually angry....

What’s your thought on this?