Wonder about what you think in pregnancy

I saw everyone post about surprise pregnancy is the very good time and happiness congratulations 🎉🍾🎊 for you’ll 😘😘😘 but in Asian family most of the family when they got pregnant they can’t show the feeling like that they just try to hide their family and in law family because they are not happy with us when we are pregnant 🤰 so pregnant is bad or a blessing? I wanna know what your thinking