Is it bad that this makes me frustrated and depressed??

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I always have sex when my hubby wants (even when I'm not particularly in the mood) but whenever I am extremely horny and want to have sex with him he never wants to do it seems like, does getting upset over this make me selfish?? :(

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It's not selfish if he won't accommodate u then don't accommodate him.. Let him know how he makes u feel

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Seriously this is how I feel too!

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Not at all. Both of you are supposed to please each other

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I must be the only guy who's ready ️and willing when my wife wants it, what pisses her off is when she is in the mood and I bring it up, but she wants to surprise me. She feels like I ruin the mood...

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I feel like my husband sometimes only wants me for a nut. :/ like he only ever tries when HE wants it. Or whenever I want it if he doesn't really want it too, he "requires" a bj to get going it's to the point where I do t really even enjoy giving them anymore because I feel like it's a job :/

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Same. Thing.
Confuses me and makes me mad.
I try everything. 
Doesn't work. 
Started to think he just isn't sexually attracted to me...

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I AM THE SAME WAY! HOLY SHIT! It pisses me off so badly. 
It's gotten us into multiple arguments.

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I'm exactly the same I'll tell my husband straight out I'm horny and most of the time he says not now so frustrating he gets it pretty much everytime he wants and he never has to tell me out right I think I'm going to try not letting him have it when he wants unless I'm horny as well or I'm ovulating 😂

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Sit down and talk to him. This happened with me and my husband about 2 years ago. I was in the mood and wanted it so badly. Even after telling him straight to his face that I wanted to have sex, he said it was late and he had to go to work in the morning. Yes he may have to be at work at 5 and he does have to be on his A-game since he is a firefighter. But anytime he wants it we almost always have sex regardless of the time. I went in the living room and cried. I was so furious and upset. He finally realized what he did when he woke up for work and saw me asleep on the couch. We talked about it a little later on the day and it hasn't happened since!

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Im going through the samething right now and have been for awhile. I have tried talking to him being mad, upset, angry etc. And nothing has seem to help!! Its VERY annoying and aggravating. I have just told him not to expect it when he wants it again and thats exactly what i did was put my foot down (even though i truly want to) and when he tried to do something i blew him off and gave him the same excuses as he did me. I dont know what else to do.

Is it bad that this makes me frustrated and depressed??

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