Things you say to ur children

I have a beautiful daughter. She is my step daughter but to me she is mine. She is 5 and starting kindergarten this year. Ive noticed alot lately that we both call each other in a joking way. Yes i am weird and proud of it now that im an adult and comfortable with myself. I dont mean any harm by it when i say she is weird because i think she should embrace that. While she was in head start she had issues with her friend and being very competitive with being prettier. To make up for that she would want to dress provocatively and her hair always had to be done. My SO and i and his mom knows she gets that from her mother and her aunts as they dress with their boobs hanging out a**es out stomach always showing the tiniest outfits they could wear and always have their hair and makeup nails done all the time. I hardly ever show skin i wear pants and tank tops with a jacket. Im just wondering since she picks up on things because she is such a smart girl if i should word things differently to her so she doesnt think that me calling her weird is a bad thing and become self conscious about it.