Kinda a rant

So I’m bi and I’m a introvert and very antisocial so I haven’t had that many relationships and I would like to know if it’s supposed to be this hard to be in an relationship especially with females. Even though I’m a female my self I kinda think we our over dramatic and very hard to deal with so I sometimes prefer males over females but then it switches sometimes because males do a lot of stupid stuff. I kinda need help. Please comment if you got any suggestions for me