Infertility Advice- Just Starting

Sara
Hi everyone,
​My husband and I have been trying for a year. I just had my yearly exam and I am being referred to a fertility specialist. Do any of you have advice as I start to explore what may be impacting my fertility? Specifically, any advice on what I should ask at my first appointment? And any advice on how to handle the stress and disappointment caused by this whole process?
​Thanks!