Small A cup...boyfriend says he doesn't care?

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I wear a 32A however my boobs sometimes don't fully fill in a 32A depending on the brand. My boyfriend is a butt guy and says he doesn't care at all that I have a very small chest. He's a guy, I know he likes boobs, but not nearly as much as butt. Even though he really makes me feel like he doesn't care that I'm a 32A, I still feel somewhat un-womanly. We shower together all the time and I still find that I cover my boobs with my hair a lot and oftentimes keep a bra or shirt on during sex. We've been dating for over a year and I am 21. How can I feel confident with my itty bitty titties and stop comparing myself to other girls? How can I get more comfortable letting my boyfriend see my boobs? (He has seen them in their entirety but a lot of times it's only for a moment)

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I'm a 34A, and as my boyfriend says, more than a handful is wasteful!

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Think of it this way, your man was attracted to you and chose to date you, based on what your breast size is. As crazy as it sounds, a lot of guys actually prefer small breasts. If he wasn't attracted to you (A cup and all) he wouldn't be with you and wanting to have sex with you. We as women think we know what men want, and interestingly we tend to 'know' that men like the things that we are personally lacking. It's just our own insecurities playing with us. Guys have the same fears, and think that all girls want the 6 foot 3 muscular jock with a big penis. Sorry, but that's not what I'm into. But if you ask a guy what women want in looks, most of them think we want the tall sexy fireman. Don't psych yourself out. Guys go after what they're attracted to, so if he's with you then you're what he wants. I'm not every guys dream girl, but I am my husbands dream girl. And that's enough for me. I don't have to be every guys fantasy in order to feel sexy for my man.

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If he liked big boobies he would have went out with a girl with big boobs so don't stress about :)

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I wear a D trust me u do not want big boobs they are miserable you have to go up a couple shirt sizes because of them an they just get in the way! Be happy and proud of what you have!

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I'm a 34b but can technically fit in a 34A. I'm so in the same boat. All of high school I was teased about having small boobs. And I did the same thing. I would hide it. And wear padded bras. In the last few years I have totally embraced it. Even pretending to feel confident about it would make me feel better. Just embrace it! If a guy has a problem with your boob size, he isn't the one for you. My hubby just likes anything to grab. So the size doesn't matter. Boobs are boobs. Haha

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I think that is a sexy size my wife is not that big to and I love it.

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I always felt completely inadequate up top when I was younger. I've always been 32-34A but have quite a bit in the booty!

I dated a guy once in college who told me it wouldn't be fair to other women to have the boobs and the butt!

So I've embraced my small boobs and I'm 30 and my husband thinks I'm perfect in every way. So hang up your worries! Guys don't really care anyways!

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I am a 34A so I completely understand. My boyfriend also says he is a butt guy but us girls know that all guys like boobs. But in all reality boobs may be nice all perked up in a bra but a lot of guys prefer small boobs because they don't sag or get in the way. I've had ppl say it is more about how the nipple looks not rlly the boobs size. If your boyfriend loves you he will love your small boobs. Be confident in your body, guys understand that we were born with small boobs there isn't anything we can do about it.

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Think of it this way. You can wear things that women with bigger breaths can't. I have a bigger chest and I hate it. I would rather have a smaller chest than what I have now.

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My boobs are big & my butt is small. My SO  likes smaller boobs & bigger butt. No matter what is ideal to him, he loves me. That's what matters.

Small A cup...boyfriend says he doesn't care?

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