I’ve lost count of the amount of times strangers say “don’t do it! They’re a handful! They’ll drain your money” or when family say “don’t have kids! You must be so happy to have your spare time to yourself!” When my friends who have just had a baby say “I miss sleep, I wanna go out but I’m stuck in”

I would trade all my money, spare time, sleep, nights out (not that I go out all the time anyway...I prefer nights in), EVERYTHING just to be a mum!!! My close friends and family know we’re trying (since January) but they STILL makes these comments! I wish I had the balls to say something to them but I don’t 😫.