Getting tired of it

My “bf” won’t say or do anything unless I do it first . I been telling him since last night I don’t feel good & How I am sick and not once did he ask me are you okay or to feel better. This morning I woke up with a swollen eye & my body was hurting and I felt very weak I couldn’t even eat & I wasn’t on my phone the whole day. So I texted him around 5 and he sent me some instagrams videos but after I replied to that I just said I’m going back to sleep I’ve been feeling bad all day thanks for asking . & he said Np, work was fine too thanks for asking. Like damn I have to ask you how was work for you to tell me to feel better or ask me am I okay. I didn’t even know if he went to work today he didn’t go yesterday idk his where abouts sometimes I think he’s at work and he’s home like idk what this man does 🙄🙄. So basically although I told him since last night I’ve been feeling terrible he can’t ask me how am I just because I didn’t ask him how’s work . In this relationship if I don’t treat him like a king or make sure hes good first he won’t do that for me.