Daughters birthday and due date same day 🤔

So my daughters birthday is sept.27 she will be turning 5 and her brothers due date is 10/11 which is 2 weeks after her birthday i want to make my daughters birthday extra special and all about her but let’s face it I’m going to be tired moody and not want to be bothered all together 😂😂 what are some things i can do that arnt to tiring i was thinking just a barbecue at the house with family any other ideas i honestly don’t know if I’m going to want to go anywhere I’m really scared he might come on her birthday i really hope not😩