So me and my S/O have been together for five years, and our sex has gotten really...blah. I've been trying super hard to do things he like and spice it up. I have gotten better at oral, look sexy, finger him or give rim jobs, rough sex, different places etc. But its like he doesn't try for me, or what he thinks I like, I actually don't. After he gets "his" he rolls over and go to sleep. He complains that we don't have sex like we use to and Im more reserved now. Honestly Im more open now, but I don't jump quick to do it because Im not satisfied in the end. And I don't have an opportunity to tell him b/c he is sleep and wakes up before me for work @ 6a. I don't talk to him until 10p when he gets off. Im just stuck and frustrated and irritated and all sorts of feelings. I want to go off on him when I don't get one, but I don't b/c I feel like I could be overreacting. What should I do? Am I the only one?