I really do not like my in laws for several reasons. They’re fake and talk behind each other’s back, very immature and the list goes on. When we were dating his younger sister FaceTime him with his ex girlfriend who she still hangs out with. The siblings and Mom have me on their group text from when I was pregnant and their conversations I’m not interested in and it’s very elementary for me. For example, 2 of them will talk about beating each other up next tome they see one another and they pull each other pants down in public. Except for my husband because he knows I would think that’s childish if I witnessed him doing that. Before I got married I wondered why my husband siblings were not in a serious relationship with them all being in their 30’s and now I know why. My dad told me I should go with the role when I’m around them since I’m a newlywed but it is so hard for me as I’m very direct and do not hide what I think or feel so it’s been a interesting journey so far. Another thing that my husband had failed to talk about his his mother’s feeling for me but he’s quick to say how his dad adores me. Anyhow, he was a momma boy before we got married so that may have something to do with it as well. When we were engaged he was on the phone with his mom in his car which automatically puts the conversation on speaker through his Bluetooth and he said “ Mom, your daughter in law says hi” and she replied “ she ain’t my daughter in law yet”. My husband and my parents have a close relationship and has been calling him son since the moment we got engaged. My husband never wants to bring up the issue with his side of the family and I’m scared on how to address it with him since they’re close knit and I don’t want him to think I don’t want our son around them because I would never keep our son away from them because of my personal feeling but it feels like he just sweeps it under the rug. Has anyone’s else has issues with their in laws? Any recommendations are welcomed.