getting 1 year old to bed

yall it's so exhausting trying to get my daughter to bed. it takes us hours every night😞 I need some good advice / tricks. I'm desperate!! she usually doesn't go to sleep until 9pm-10pm and she doesn't sleep thru the night yet AND she wakes up hella early (6am). I read she should be getting 12 hrs at night and I think she gets maybe 7-8 hrs. Tonight I tried taking her a nice warm bath, gave her a big bottle of milk & spent an hr reading to her. it's 830 here and shes still wide awake. my husband came in the room and thats what seems to have gotten her hyper.😒 I literally give up when he comes its exhausting... I feel like when my daughter sees her dad, she doesn't want to go to sleep. i feel that he spends the majority of his time working on his car so when he comes in, he's all my daughter wants. shell even wake up bright and early and start screaming for him when he leaves to work. pleasee help this mama out😓 I'm pregnant with baby #2 and desperate to get some better sleep 😞