Would y’all be upset

My husband’s best friend is a female - which I typically don’t have an issue with - however - before we started dating she asked him out but then promptly got back together with her husband.

He’s admitted to me (while we are married) that he’s attracted to her; gets along with her; they have a lot in common.

They go to coffee regularly. He’s admitted he’s brought up personal marriage issues to her and said mean things about me - all the while I’m pregnant and feeling insecure as it is.

He says I have nothing to worry about and doesn’t get why I’m upset.

I’m not a snooper and refuse to go through his phone/computer/etc.

I plan on bringing this up in our next counseling session - just wanted to see what y’all thought.

This may seem petty as fuck but she cancelled on our baby shower due to a family emergency and then posted pics on fb about her fun family vacation - why lie - id have had no issue with her saying she had a trip planned instead - and he “loved” her pics of her vacation but didn’t bother to even “like” the pics of our sons shower.

Idk - the whole things makes me uncomfortable. 😩😢