Anal... for the first time! Thoughts? Comments?

So I’ve been putting this off for like 2 or 3 times already, saying no to my partner because it hurts when he puts it in.. Last time he tried it, it was in the middle of sex & he just went straight for it like, without telling me LOL so of course that one hurt, & later after that, I noticed some blood coming out from down there. It almost felt as if I had a cut but it went away after a couple of days.

SOOOOOOO TODAYYYY, we were like hella sweaty & it was hot asf so he told me in the middle of it that we should try it again & I said no AGAIN bc it hurts but he told me it was gonna be okay bc he’d go slow n blah blah blah so then I was like fine.. so he basically used the sweat as an advantage to put it in, he put his finger in first tho before he did anything else & If I’m honest with y’all, I didn’t even realize he put it in lol Like I felt it & I didn’t think it was really in there but it was! ...

Also I know anal isn’t really safe or good for you or your body but I just want to know y’all’s thoughts on this or If any of y’all have had experiences with it..?!