May be pregnant

The father would be a successful PhD, who has been very caring and loving but who also very much sees me as a broken person which isn’t always healthy.

He’s starting a company (we both are, that’s how we met through an accelerator program). We aren’t married. It would not only add stress to his life and I am not sure that he would see this as a good thing.

He was away for a few weeks and I’m leaning towards not telling him, and breaking things off.

Thoughts? I can do this alone, right?

My fear is that he would resent me and blame me which wouldn’t be good for the child... we’ve had a very emotional relationship and seems hesitant to call me his girlfriend even. Confused