Did I cheat?

Question

Okay so I know that this may sound silly. 
But when my husband and I first started dating, like maybe 6 months into it, I worked as a server at a bar/restaurant. They close at 2am and I knew he was sleeping. Well I kinda was flirting with this guy who was a regular and he was super cute. He asked me and few of the other servers to come over to his party so we did. I didn’t let him know. So we went over there and I got really drunk. I ended up sitting on his lap and was kinda flirty. We did not kiss or make-out. He was grabbing my hips and kinda touched my outer thighs a bit. I gave him my number and left. He texted me when i got home to make sure i got home safe. I ended up (drunkenly) said that he was super hot and I’d fuck him if I wasn’t dating my boyfriend. He said thanks I’m glad you’re safe and ended the conversation and didn’t talk to him since. This was 2013 and he died in a motorcycle accident about a year later. 
Fast forward 5 years later, my boyfriend and I got married and we’ve been married for 2 years now. I still feel bad to this day about it and not sure if I should tell him. I really feel bad but I might be overthinking it and being dramatic. Should I let it go or did I cheat?

Accepted Answer

Let it go. No need to mention it now...you almost cheated but i wouldn’t count that as cheating but He’d def be mad about it.

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How would you feel if the situation was reversed and it was your partner doing such with another woman? I don't feel you cheated but what you did was wrong - flirting and giving him your number. It is clearly eating at you so you  need to sit down and have a talk with him about it before it becomes an even bigger issue later on.

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I wouldn't exactly call it cheating, but it wasn't right. Having said that you weren't married and nothing further went on. 
I think you should just let him rest in peace. 
What do you think would happen or want to happen if you told your husband??

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I feel like if u have to hide it then it’s cheating ?🤷🏻‍♀️

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To me cheating isnt just physical, if you done something with another man wether that be flirting or kissing and you hid it from your boyfriend you feel guilty for a reason. Nobody can make the choice but you. If you can live with yourself don’t tell him if you can’t then you know the answer x

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Yeap close enough. Sexting, etc....

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flirting is cheating, so yes, you did cheated. id say for you to just let it go, since its been so long now. use it as a lesson to not do it again.

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I'll flat tell u the truth. THATS CHEATING

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if say cheating emotional cheating if u want to be specific. I feel like if he told you, you'd be heart broken. If it's eating at u the guilt won't let u have the best healthy rr out there because u feel like u need to hide it all the time. I suggest telling him let him know u never would even think about it again u are gonna have to do much reassuring and it'll be hard for about 2 weeks but just remind him it was years ago and u were barely 6 months in and hasn't happened again

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If my boyfriend made me look stupid like this we would have broken up. If your now husband knew what you did I’m sure he wouldn’t have continued your relationship when it was just at 6 months.

Did I cheat?

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