What I want

Guys, I want rough sex. Like rougher than what my SO and I already have. Like I was cuffs and toys. I asked once and he got all like butthurt that he wasn’t enough. But like he is and he’s so good but I want more. I want rough and kinky. He chokes me, pulls my hair, slaps and grabs my ass, but those things adds so simple. I want more! I want dirty and sexy. How do you get your SO to do what you want? How do you get them to do those things without asking straight forward? Sex is getting boring and I’m not having as much fun. I just sorta want it over with. Give me some tips to spice things up!! I’m horny a lot but I want more 😩😍