i found out i was pregnant July 4th

I found out I was pregnant July 4th but didn't confirm 100% until the 6th or tell my boyfriend until then .. had a ultrasound Monday.. ob said he couldn't see baby come back Wednesday got blood work again on Monday hcg was 5k so it was more when I came back Wednesday... they still couldn't see baby .. he said if he can't find baby on Monday I have to take a pill or get my tube removed for an eptopic pregnancy but hasn't even checked my ovaries 😒 so how u know I'm having an eptopic if u haven't even looked... so my man doesn't want me to go to doctor.. & wants me to find another on.. what do you ladies think by my LMP I should be 6 weeks tomorrow

update - the reason I was seen so early is because the new lady there is a dummy and insisted that I get an ultrasound . i have 2 other children