Objectified? Advice?

So I asked a friend about advice because don’t get me wrong I do have an alright body.. but guys seem to want sex and I’m not that type of girl to just sleep around. I’m also somewhat looking for a relationship. And the advice given was its okay to be kind of objectified but after show them how great of a women you are. But I feel like if a guys looking for just sexual pleasures, its going to be more of it rather than a connection, which is what I’m looking for. And I honestly don’t know what to do because my mindset is completely different then some of the guys I talk to. Advice?