This isn’t that big of a deal, but it’s kind of weird...

So my man and I do want one more child latter.

I would not be opposed to being pregnant now, but I’m not trying.

My man says he’s not ready yet.

And I have the IUD

But he has recently been asking when I’m going to have it out.

And weird statements about our future children: how they’d look, their names.

And then a couple of nights ago we were at his friends with out kiddos and their kiddos and my man and his friends were playing cards. I was leaning over talking my friends baby who’s 9 months, feeding her, y’know normal sh*t.

And my man says: “You’re not read for another one, right ?” In front of everybody.

I’m not going to lie, I was a tad embarrassed. His brothers were there and everything.

So I asked him about it in private, and his response was, “Another baby would be nice, but not right now.”

And then yesterday, he asked again when I was going in to have my IUD removed.

It doesn’t matter to me, honestly. But I am about to be protection-less, and I want to wait for a little while longer. Like another six months at least. But I feel like I’ve been clear, and I don’t feel like he’s being clear with me.

And if I’m being honest, I get the hunch that he would not mind getting me pregnant.