So my child father is 21 born and raised in India I am 18 African American born and raised in america. We were dating for a year we met on tinder I think we said I love you maybe 4 times. Well I asked him since we’ve been dating for a year if it was okay if I met his parents. We turns out Indian people aren’t supposed to date outside their race well the men can “fool” around till their arranged marriage. He had 0 intentions with me in the future just to pretend till it was time for his parents to pick his wife. I was hurt and I cried for at least 2 days every night thinking about it. Fast forward we finally decided to see each other he apologized and said he has no control over it. Well a few weeks later I went to go renew my BC just to find out I’m pregnant now almost 9 weeks. We just condoms but one night it broke and I told him it was okay because I was on BC. I haven’t told him because I know the outcome. My mom always asks me who the dad is and I never tell her she asked me over and over again and I seriously feel like it’s none of her business. I just needed to rant but I know I’m going to go through my pregnancy alone.