FTM here. Due on August 22. Today I am 36+5. Not a single BH or sign of a real contraction. What I have had is back pain, hip discomfort (aka I'm walking around like John Wayne fresh off the range) baby boys head is down and my pelvic are is getting painful, like he's head butting me from the inside. What's the likelihood that I am dilated at all when I go in at 37 weeks to get checked?

I'm so defeated because I have no signs of him coming early but I am so uncomfortable and ready to have this baby. I'm ok waiting until 40 weeks but the thought of going over makes me want to cry. I just want a little good news that I'm even a little dilated to get me through the next few weeks.

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also I have to have this baby by August 28th or this mommas going to be paying out of pocket for all her hospital bills!)