Im not sure if im in labor

So ive been hurting all day and the pain has started at the top of my uterus and went down, I have felt in my back alot and in my pelvic area. The baby hasn't moved as much today. I hate going to L&D; and getting sent home. They tend to be very rude and my husband ends up not getting much sleep because of being at the hospital and being dissapointed when we get home again. I second guess myself alot, because nobody tends to believe me so I second guess, but I have been hurting and not just today the last 2 days have been rough. Does it sound like im in labor or am I overthinking the pain?