Need help/Advice

So some back story, my grandma has raised me since the age of ten. She got me out of an abusive home and gave me a life I will never be able say thank you for enough. I am married now and and my husband and I are going to be having our first born in little less to a month. My grandma and I were so close but have drifted a little do to me not always agreeing with everything she wants or does or says. I told her from the beginning that I wanted her to be and was welcome to be in the room when I gave birth to our son. She had made a comment in from out our family that she will be in there no matter what. So I tested her and said well “what if I didn’t tell you till after he was born” all she sai was “screw it” . Now I said that because I wanted to see what her reaction would be. She texted me tonight and I will post the texts below. Please if you ladies have an advice because I am stressing and crying because I can’t make her happy with anything I do or I say .

Sorry for the long post😞