Tell me what’s worse

Tell me what’s worse ladies. So you’ve been with this man for 2 years. He wasn’t perfect when you met him, nobody is. He had flaws like anger issues, he wasn’t fair, he was controlling and he told you the most horrible of things when he was mad. However through all that, you stayed with him expressed how you felt in those moments without hurting him back. You’ve helped change him into a better person, you kept giving and giving. Till he finally became the person you knew he could always be, but everything isn’t fine with you now. You realized that when you kept giving you lost a lot of yourself and now your insecure and you don’t trust him. You’re the one that needs work now and when you thought he would be there the way you were. He decides it won’t work if you are like this, he wants to just give up cause you keep bringing up the past him. Tell me ladies what’s worse than a man that won’t love you if you weren’t perfect when you loved him when he wasn’t even good?