Why does pregnancy have to be a competition??? My hub's Niece is 4 years younger then me and about to have her 3rd baby she works and just barely went on maternity leave and has baby threw csection in 3 days. Im trying to be happy and excited for her seeing how shes feeling and such she worried about her older boys starting school or being jealous both of those are also on my mind so I relate that yeah im worried about that stuff too but since her life is gonna be so much harder then mine its not justified for me to also be worried about these things too.. I have an issue with this. Im sure! 3 kids is harder then 2 and the fact your younger and will be returning to work in a couple months wont be easy at all, but making me feel like i have no right to be worried about struggling with parenthood as well just cuz my life isn't as hard I think is kinda bullshit. I was being nice checking on you trying to sympathize with you why do you feel that need to make it seem like no one else will have a hard time too like parenting it hard for everyone and her mommy watches her kids for free we don't have that that's why I stay home what I would make vs what daycare cost I would be working for nothing..