would you tolerate this behaviour?

been up all night stressed out and fed up of crying to how insulted and embarrassed I feel. only because I waited for my boyfriend to come home so we can go gym together, got my gym gear all ready waited downstairs for him, soon as he comes in he slams the door in my face and tells me to go upstairs and put a "sports bra" on when I had a normal bra on. soon as I said I don't have it with me and left it at my dad's he calls me a "slut" infront of his 14 year old sister, "she loves having her tits out so she can grab all the guys attention" l felt disgusted and embarrassed I just walked out the house and got into my car. expressed my feelings and told him how hurt I was by everything he said and he laughed and said "it was only a joke! have some humour" my response back was "you don't insult your own girlfriend infront of your family? you don't insult your girlfriend like that at all" I got no apology from any of it. he even told me himself he has nothing to apologise for cause what he said was only a "joke"