Trying to spruce up the sex life

I’ve been in a bit of a funk since starting my medication for anxiety. It kind of makes me not in the mood to have sex anymore so clearly it isn’t fair to my husband. He loves me and is always trying to make me feel good so this morning after tossing and turning in bed I grabbed some lotion and started touching his penis. He’s always told me he wanted to wake up to me giving him a bj or hj so I kept this in mind. Ladies he was like “Wow what was that for?” Of course he had the biggest grin after all was said and done. I’m going to try and focus on this part a bit more because I don’t want it to be an “occasion” or have to have a “reason” to do this other than I just wanted to make him feel good since he makes me happy! I saw another post here about a girl who likes to give her husband blow jobs and it got me thinking about sex in my own relationship. So, do the spontaneous for your partner! I think those are fun surprises. 😁