Girls who live with their man

It’s all good when the relationship is new and honeymoon, but how do you keep the magic of super great sex when you live together ? Open to any ideas! We’ve been together a year and a half. And I’m more interested in having regular sex and I’m lucky to get it once a month. He has trouble getting it up and lasting. Love him to death but the poor guy suffers from crippling anxiety. And we’ve tried counselling and getting into porn but it’s just not his thing

Help please

Xoxo horny and concerned girlfriend