ok not sure this is the right category to post this in but I need to vent and this category does say vent. I am torn and standing at crossroads in my life right now. I want to have a baby so badly and I am not getting any younger. but neither my husband or I are in a good place career and financially wise. we both want to go back to college and better our careers. I know having a baby, going to college and working isn't easy though. my husband would prefer to wait until at least he is graduated but as I said earlier I am not getting any younger (I'm 26) and ik conceiving only gets harder the older a woman is. what should I do?