I serve my husband his food first then my kids then me. he waits to eat until we're all served & seated. Don't forget your children will grow up & leave you for their families & it'll be your husband who stays with you. It's important to have him feel as loved & important as your children & vice versa.

Um kids first, doesn't your husband have arms? If you have more than one kid he should be doing one and you should do the other. Becareful teaching gender roles like this to your children.

The one who's more likely to cry first

They can plate their own food? .. unless they are too small to reach the counter, in which case, obviously kids first.

Kids, husband and I get the scraps lol

Growing up, my mom always fixed my dad's plate first then ours then hers. My dad is not macho but she always have his place as a man as her husband as our father. He has our respect for he works hard to put food on the table & provide for what we needed. And he was the first one at the table because he's a man. The guy has to eat & always have energy. We were always last to come to the table anyway. We were always watching tv or playing outside. We didn't care about eating. Lol so that's why we were served second. My mom made sure we were all served & fed well. As we grew up my mom made us serve ourselves. Now, I am older. I am married and a mother as well. I do the same as my mother did. My husband is first, then my child, then me.

Both me and my husband usually do the kids plates first. Then we'll do our plates. Sometimes I serve him. Sometimes he wants to serve himself. No matter what the order we all wait until we are all sitting with our food. We all pray then we all can eat together.