ruining the moment...

so I've been trying a little more to be sexy with my husband to try and up my confidence..

one night we were sitting on the couch and i was in my nightgown, I started running my fingers around my chest and rubbing his leg to get him to notice and then he turns and looks at me and farts....

okay.

so I've just been doing little things like that on and off for the past week or so.

then today I was really in the mood, so I kept our daughter awake until 430 (when he gets done with work) then put her down for her nap. got dressed in some lingerie, and waited for him to get home from work.

I turned on some music when he walked into the living room and he was surprised and we began foreplay well in the middle of it he started to get soft... okay, so I just gave a bj and fixed it. then we started having sex and switched to a fun new spot in the living room and he went soft again..... 🤦‍♀️ that just killed the mood.. and he couldn't get it back and he blamed it on the music because we've never had sex with music on.

🤨 really? is that really that distracting that you can't keep a boner?!

this is just frustrating, I feel like he's just not attracted to me anymore.

Any thoughts??