any advice is appreciated

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My boyfriend aunt is the most,... I can’t even put it into words I don’t know what to call her! To start my pregnancy she was wonderful and couldn’t wait to see my son now that he almost two weeks she seen him once and I found out she didn’t wanna see him in the first place and refuses to see him again (which is fine) but never once she said anything to me or my boyfriend.. when she did see him she was “in love blah blah blah” posting him on her Snapchat which I didn’t say anything at the time but I did tell my boyfriend next he has to tell her not too or I will because her Snapchat is where random men pay her to send them naked pictures of herself, sorry I have an issue with that but moving on now since then she refuses to see him because “that’s not her nephew kid” which everyone say he looks like me and his looks will probably change (they do say he had my boyfriend lips and the way he eats soooo much) but she took it a step further and say to other family members that “he needs a dna test” and “he too white” well hello I’m white! (Boyfriend Mexican) she also said I’m a whore, I was so upset and today I didn’t wanna take my child over to see great grandma because that’s where she lives, my boyfriend mom ask me why and I told her everything I been hearing, so she went and talk to her other sister to confirm what she was telling me was true, well of course she said she wasn’t lying. My boyfriend mom was pissed went over there and had a few choice words with her and basically told her to fuck off if she going to say stuff like that about her daughter in law and grandson I was happy she stuck up for me but now it caused a issue with them and I’m more of a bitch “because I’m starting family drama and I’m not even family” Am I wrong for not wanting my son or myself to be around her? My boyfriend mom don’t blame me but her brother says if I’m afraid to come around I’m hiding something... like I said any advice is appreciated!