How important is sex to you?

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How much does sex mean to you in a relationship?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for the past 2 years. Things have been great. He’s an amazing guy but there is a problem. 
When we first starting dating, sex was the biggest problem for us. He doesn’t satisfy me sexually. Whenever we make love, he always come so fast and doesn’t give me organism. At first I tried to ignore those signs because I loved him but as time went by it got frustrating. We talked about it on several occasions and he said he’ll work on himself..  it’s been 2 years I don’t see much of a change. Being as young as I am (21) I need to reach a full level of organism when I do have sex; I mean who doesn’t. And another thing is, he doesn’t eat me out which is my favorite activity while having sex. And whenever I bring it up about him not satisfying me, he make me feel bad about myself like I’m some sex addict. I am very tempted to cheat on him but again I really do love him.
The question is, should I stay and give him more time to improve or should I call it quit.

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You just answered your own question, if you’re tempted to cheat on him the relationship is over. You can’t force someone to do things that they don’t want to do, maybe he’s not comfortable with oral sex. But then again, you’re young and you shouldn’t feel bad for wanting to experience the type of sex life that you want, and you deserve someone who is okay with giving that to you. Good luck girl👍🏾

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If you’re tempted to cheat then you shouldn’t stay. You won’t communicate either.

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Sounds like he isn’t willing to actually try to improve things with you. I’d be out of there. Sex is important to me and a selfish dude in bed is a no for me.

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It's everything to me. But I'm highly sexual. Fuck that shit he has a hand and a mouth and all the toys in the world and satisfied and your laying there like a spare part! Ppffft

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girl that is not thing i have the same problem to with my man BUT I HAVE IT WORSE HE HAS A SMALL DICK so dont feel bad dude

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Sex isnt that important to me. My SO and I barely have sex (twice a month if I’m lucky) but it’s because he works. Regardless you know how your body works and know what pleasures you and whatnot. He might not. Communicate during sex and try different positions. As far as eating you out he might not like doing and you shouldn’t force/persuade someone to do something they clearly don’t want to do. 
Also if you’re tempted to cheat on someone just because sex isn’t how you like it, they deserve someone who understands that it’s okay to cum quickly (my so was like that in the beginning) it’s not all his fault. It’s quite difficult to try to stop cumming when you’re at your limit. 
And another thing imagine how it feels when someone is always telling you that you’re not satisfying them sexually. That’s a real blow to someone’s confidence.

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I think sex is very important in a relationship. I love getting intimate with my husband, it makes us feel closer. I honestly think if you’re thinking about cheating then just end it and move on. Not all men are selfish in the bedroom, my husband won’t cum until he knows I’ve came first!

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