SIL living with us is driving me nuts..

so just now she wanted to do laundry but instead of adding her 6 things to my half load already in the washer, she takes all of my sons, husbands, and my clothes out to put hers in to wash... she isnt paying for anything.. so frustrated...

our grocery bill has doubled because of her dietary wants... she eats 2 avocados a day and we cant afford that... we buy whole grain but she wants this special sprouted oat bread... we buy landolakes butter with canola oil to make it spreadable but she just wants kerrygold butter... she doesnt want the sandwiches or east prep meals i make she wants to cook big lunches and dinners... my husband wont say anything but this is rediculous.. she has to buy her special shampoo and conditioner even though the kind we buy is for everyone.. she wants the super fancy shiney letters bottle kind.. i feel like im having to babysit a teenager and shes 22..she made a whole list of things she wants for her birthday... like wtf... youre living with us for the summer thats your gift...

she antagonizes my 2 year old until hes fussing and screaming then calls him a bad boy...

just frustrated... her return flight is Sept. 1 but she wants to move that to late October...