Who’s wrong?

One of my friends who I thought was more of a best friend is mad at me because today is her birthday and I didn’t post anything

The other day We we’re talking about something and then she said we’re just ‘friends’ which kind of broke my heart and I just ended up crying

I saw posts on Facebook for her birthday so I thought about posting something but I’ve stopped posting birthday stuff a while ago and I was just sending private messages because I was more comfortable with that, but then I remembered that we were meeting up today so I didn’t send Er anything because I thought it would be nicer to tell her happy birthday in person.

We had lots of fun while we were out but she had sent me something telling me that if she was (another friend I have) that I would have posted her a video which I did post a video for that girl but that was before I took the decision of not posting anything

I told her that it’s not about her and my reasoning behind why I didn’t post her anything and thought it was fine and then I sent her our photos but then she was like I’ll only forgive you if you do something for me, which kind of annoyed me because I didn’t feel like I did anything wrong and I did tell her happy birthday when I saw her and I just waited for her to tell me what she wants and she was like I want you to post our videos and write me something from your heart to show people that you care.

I was really annoyed by it so I just posted our photos and I couldn’t come up with anything to write so I just wrote something short and simple and then she texted me telling me to delete the post because what i wrote wasn’t something from my heart and I didn’t want to post it (which is true)

And then she told me that I should’ve posted something without her asking anyway so I just deleted the post.

I feel like the whole thing is so childish and I had already told her why I didn’t post her anything in the first place.