DNA testing?

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when I found out I was pregnant me and my boyfriend had split up, I told him from the beginning if he wanted a DNA test I would do it without a problem because there's no doubt in my mind it's his. now, I'm 9 months pregnant & out of nowhere his family wants to DNA test my baby, I have no problem except for the fact that I don't have to prove a damn thing to them, the DNA test in the beginning was for him & they brought it up yesterday at my BABY SHOWER!! they're always giving me a hard time, so I asked him again if he wants a DNA test and he denies one. he said he won't partcipate because "he's not stupid" & "knows she is his". I just don't like the way they're doing things to me & im tired of suffering. I don't know what to do and I had to get this off my chest, this really hurt me because they're going to deny a tiny baby who doesn't have anything to do with anything & I feel bad because she deserves love from everyone.

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honestly, if i were you, as long as he is accepting its his and he is willing to step up, it doesnt matter what his family says. he can also talk to his family & tell them to back of because he knows its his.

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He needs to let his family know that he doesn't want it.. And he doesn't feel the need for it..

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Hmm that's a tough one because although you definitely don't owe them anything, it would get them off your back. They definitely sound like they suck though

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One of the guys my hubby works with has been making comments to him "joking" that hes not the father and telling him to get a DNA test and my hubby knows hes the dad but considered doing a DNA test just to shut up his coworker about it. Yes i worked at a bar from 4 months before conception to 2 weeks after we found out (about 2 months after conception) but i havent had sex with anyone other than my hubby since we started dating in high school. I feel like its none of his business. Our daughter has nothing to do with him and any negative thoughts he has should be kept to himself.

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I think he needs to be the one to tell his family that he does not feel a DNA test is needed and that they need to drop the topic.

They should not have discussed that your baby shower, I'm sorry you had to put up with that kind of baloney

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You have every right to feel that way ,once she's born it will all change a friend of mine was in a smiliar situation and when that baby was born it brought everyone so close. Hopefully they cut the bs out and just love her. Good luck

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That's wicked rude for them to do that at the baby shower. I agree with pretty much everyone. If you want them off your back, just do it and get it over with. I would say that if your bf doesn't care to do one then don't worry about it, but seeing that it's his family saying they want one, years down the road they could try to convince him otherwise so I would just do it so you're not bothered by it later.

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You're completely right, you don't have to prove anything to them. And not saying you were unfaithful, but if there's a doubt in their minds, just do it to prove them wrong and get it over with so they have nothing else negative to say!

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I would get one not for them but just so it want be any questions down the line about anything! Just get it and everyone will feel better

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