Bf rant/family problems

I love my boyfriend soooo much it just astonishes me and terrifies me. This is my first relationship and we’ve been together since October... we’ve broken up once back in feb but i gave him another shot because not even a week passed where we talked again and took things a lot slower, anyways i just i don’t want to mess this up seeing him and his smile gives me butterflies in my stomach we have arguments every so often but we apologize too each other there hasn’t been a day since i haven’t talked to him, he calls me every morning just to tell me good morning and lets me go back to sleep (he calls like at 6am btw) i know he’s not perfect he has flaws like everyone else but he’s just perfect too me. The whole point of this was to basically rant about him lol but also cause idk what to do my family doesn’t agree with me being with him but i just i don’t know what too do im stuck btwn knowing that sometimes theres things he needs to do to become responsible but with my family putting him down i hate it and defend him.. i don’t want go against my family but i mean right now this is the man i love...and they just want whats best for me i know, but he’s the best how can i convince my family otherwise i mean i respect their opinions but i hate there criticism about him, they dont know him like i do( here i am sounding like a teen im 21 btw) i just want everyone to stand each other how can i do that