Torn on what to do.

I have been in a relationship for seven years, we are long distant and visit each other frequently and I was going to move there when I was done with my last semester of college in December. I met him when I was 15 and I’m now 22 turning 23 so a lot of love and history is there. We got in a huge fight because I expressed being upset about something he told me he wouldn’t do anymore. The next day I didn’t hear anything, it’s now been a month and we have talked a few times about how he needs time and space to think. I have stopped initiating contact because there’s no point when he will just ignore me and wants space. I love him but this is the third time he has needed to think so I’m torn, if I should just focus on myself and wait for him to figure it out or if I should just move on. Advice?