UPDATE: Never been so broken

Husband just told me he wants an open relationship. I asked him to be honest. He couldn’t even say it to my face, just could only text it to me. I’m 36 weeks pregnant with out 1st. I honestly feel dead inside and don’t know what to even do now. We’re stationed all the way in Japan, we just moved here too. So I have no friends or family. I’m heartbroken.

Update: I told him that I want a divorce. He tried saying that he doesn’t “need” it to be an open marriage, and he was just saying how he felt. And I told him that regardless, him feeling that way is a no go for me. I’m broken, but I’m trying to remember I have a little girl that’s about to enter this world, and I need to stay strong for her. And I wish I could hop on a plane and head back home to be with my family 😞 I need them. But I am in the military as well and stationed out here and legally can’t leave so... yupp.